My Leave-in Conditioners and I

My Leave-ins

Despite how it looks, I really wasn’t shoving hair products up my nose…….

Hello ladies

How are we all doing? I hope you are being good to yourself and your hair.
I decided to write this blog post because I am often asked when and how I use my leave in conditioners.  I may be wrong but I get the impression that ladies who are new to hair journeys get slightly confused between leave-in conditioning and  moisturising and sealing and at what stage on their wash day to do either.

I have written posts about leave-in conditioning and moisturising and sealing previously.  In this post I will be addressing leave-in conditioning in a more practical way.  I will be sharing what my staple leave-in conditioners are, how and when I use them in my regimen. What I hope to achieve by sharing my approach is to give one example of how leave-in conditioning can brought into a hair regimen.

Before I get into it,  ladies please note that products which make my hair feel great may have a different effect on your hair and vice versa.
Our hair reacts differently to various products and this is why it is important to not focus too much on what other people are using.  It is okay to experiment with recommended products but always be guided by how a product makes YOUR hair feel before deciding on whether to carry on using it in your regimen.

 

MY LEAVE-IN CONDITIONERS


Aphogee Keratin & Green Tea Restructurizer (Protein)
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How I discovered this product

I discovered Aphogee a few months before I began my hair journey.  It was during the phase when I was experiencing severe breakage and even my work mates at the time noticed my hair was disappearing.  I was talking to one of them about my hair woes and she mentioned that a product line called Aphogee was great for hair breakage.  I initially bought the two step treatment and the Keratin and Green Tea Reconstructor.  The two step treatment didn’t seem to do much for my hair but immediately  I sprayed on the Keratin and Green Tea Recontructor my breakage reduced instantly.
I loved the fact that on my wash days and for a few days afterwards my breakage was reduced.
Although I made some mistakes with this product (mainly spraying on too much which caused my hair to feel extremely brittle) I learnt how to use it correctly and it has been a permanent part of my regimen for over 5 years now.

When do I use this product?
On wash days after shampooing and deep conditioning.

How I apply this product
After shampooing and deep conditioning my hair in box braids, I unravel and detangle one box braid and spray 2 to 3 pumps of the Aphogee on my palms and apply it to the section that I have just detangled.  I apply it from root to tip ensuring my ends get a good share of the product.

Why do I like this product
The simple answer is that it works well with my hair.  It makes my hair feel strong and smooth.  I like that it contains a lot of hydrolyzed proteins.  This means that the protein in the product has been broken down so that it is small enough to be absorbed and/or bind to hair cuticles.
It is very light and non greasy so it tends to leave my hair feeling bouncy and fluffy.

What I do not like about this product
Using too much of this can lead to really dry and brittle hair which breaks easily.

 

 

Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In Conditioning Cream (mild protein)cantu

How I discovered this product

I had seen a few good reviews of this product across several hair blogs. I was stocking up on hair products and noticed the leave-in on one of the shelves.  On a whim I decided to try it.  It was love at first application.  This product has been a staple of mine for about 4 years.

When do I use this product
I use this on my wash days and during the week for moisturising my hair.

How do I apply this product
On wash days: after applying the Ahpogee, I apply a mixture of the Cantu Shea butter and Luster’s S-curl to the section of hair that has just been detangled.  I apply the mixture from root to tip.
For moisturising and sealing – I apply a mixture of the Cantu Shea Butter and Luster’s S-curl to my hair in sections from root to tip and seal with coconut or olive oil.

Why Do I Like This Product
Like I noted above, I fell in love with this product at first application…why??? Because it made my hair feel super super smooth.  I like the consistency of the cream, it is light and non sticky or greasy.  It leaves my hair feeling hydrated, soft and smooooooooth.
My sister in-law and niece who are both natural love it too.

What I do not like about this product
I initially used the Cantu to moisturise daily without mixing it with any other product but I noticed that by the third or fourth day my hair would feel a little coated and …weird.
When I use this product mixed with s-curl I do not have this problem.

 

Luster’s S-Curl “No-Drip” Curl Actor

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How I discovered this product
Similar to the Cantu Shea Butter, I had seen the product being used by several ladies on hair  blogs and decided to try it.  I was aware of s-curl before my hair journey but thought it was strictly for people with Jherri curls.
I hated it at first but when mixed with my cantu shea butter I really like it.

When do I use this product
I use this on my wash days and during the week for moisturising my hair.

How do I apply this product
On wash days: after applying the Ahpogee, I apply a mixture of the Cantu Shea butter and Luster’s S-curl to the section of hair that has just been detangled.  I apply the mixture from root to tip.
For moisturising and sealing – I apply a mixture of the Cantu Shea Butter and Luster’s S-curl to my hair in sections from root to tip and seal with coconut or olive oil.

What Do I Like about This product
I like that it is makes my hair feel very well moisturised.
When I am deep on my stretch I love that I can spray it on my new growth and it softens my new growth really well.  I also like its consistency: it is very light and non greasy.

What I do not like about this product
When I use it on its own daily to moisturise and seal, it tends to make my hair feel mushy and limp by the third day. However when mixed with cantu shea butter I do not experience this.

Additional Points

On my wash day after applying my leave in conditioners,  I air dry my hair and then moisturise and seal either on the same day or maybe the next depending on what I think my hair needs….and how tired I feel.

I have to emphasise that my way is not the only way.  It’s what I have learnt works for me and I would love to know about what works for you.  What are your leave –in conditioners, what do you like about them and how do you use them?

I am still planning on uploading a video at some point.  I just have to figure out how to overcome a few network issues.
In the interim the next blog post will be about the top 6 changes I made to my hair care habits which  helped me “grow” my hair.  I hope you’ll come back soon to see what they are.

x

Lade
Learn | Change | Grow

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15 Comments

  1. Chez
    November 24, 2014 / 11:14 pm

    Hi Lade,
    I have just started my hair journey this past weekend and I used products u had recommended. Today my hair is super soft and after washing, conditioning on Saturday I’ve had very hardly any breakage where before my hair was so dry and just breaking constantly. I used the S curl at the weekend and I’m shocked by how good it is at moisturising relaxed hair and is not at all greasy. It’s also so cheap, that it is easy to really start caring for your hair on a budget, we just need people like you to point us in the right direction and help us break our bad habits! Keep up the good work.

    • omolade
      Author
      December 17, 2014 / 2:58 pm

      Hello Chez
      Thank you, thank you and thank you.
      I appreciate the encouragement and thanks for reading.
      I am glad your hair is improving too.
      x
      Lade

  2. Cebe
    November 25, 2014 / 4:39 am

    Omg can’t believe this was your last post for this year. I’ve only just started reading your blog. I copied most of your advice. Not intending to reuse it for any publications but just to edit it into my healthy hair journal.

    I have fallen in love with this blog and it kind of filled in gaps I had in my research.

    Thank you Lade. Please write again soon.

    Xoxo

    • omolade
      Author
      December 17, 2014 / 2:52 pm

      Hello Cebe

      Awww thank you for your compliments. I am glad you’re hooked on Hairducation.
      This certainly isn’t my last post for the year as you have probably already noticed.
      Xx
      Lade

  3. Ada
    November 30, 2014 / 1:50 pm

    Hi Lade,

    First of all i am obsessed with your hair and currently following your wig regimen, and so far i have seen some progress. Thank you so much for this post as this clears up so many questions i had. Instead of mixing my protein and moisture conditioners do you think it is ok if deep condition on dry hair overnight with a protein conditioner (before i shampoo) then shampoo, then deep condition with a moisturising conditioner (using steamer). Or will the shampoo strip the effect of the protein deep conditioner?? thinking of doing this because my hair is really thick and prepooing with just oils never seem to soften it and make detangling such a hassle! Please advise me on what to do!
    Thanks.

    • omolade
      Author
      December 17, 2014 / 2:50 pm

      Hello Ada
      Thanks so so much for the kind words.
      I am glad you have noticed some improvement with the wig regimen.
      When it comes to pre-poing with a conditioner most ladies use a moisture conditioner rather than protein and I recommend the same.
      Please see the conditioning tab under the “how to care for black hair” section for advice on achieving moisture and protein balance.

  4. December 16, 2014 / 10:54 pm

    Hi pls is when best to use d apogee after a protein conditiong or moisturize deep conditioning.

    • omolade
      Author
      December 17, 2014 / 2:40 pm

      Hello Ummi
      I would say it is best to use it after a moisturising deep conditioner……always be guided by what your hair needs before applying your leave in conditioners.
      x
      Lade

  5. December 17, 2014 / 6:35 pm

    Ohk lade thank u for the response.

  6. natty
    February 25, 2015 / 1:49 pm

    Hi, i am going to start my hair journey but I am trying to source my products before hand. I have read up about deep conditioning using a protein conditioner and moisturizing conditioners. I am seeing many examples of protein conditioners but none really of moisturizing conditioners. Can you tell me some of what you use? I am talking about the ones to steam your hair and wash out. A lot of what i see seems to have proteins and I am trying to avoid drying out my hair as after i deep condition using the protein conditioner, I want to steam my hair with a conditioner that will help add moisture to it.

    thank you in advance

  7. Maryam
    March 15, 2015 / 6:56 am

    hi please when you wash/shampoo your hair do you do so when it is in braids ? or do you loosen it completely before washing the hair ?
    thanks

  8. Mpume
    April 9, 2015 / 8:48 am

    Lade and ladies, hello!

  9. Kuukua Ghartey
    August 5, 2015 / 6:04 am

    Hi Lade. i am a bit confused here. you have stated that the aphogee leave-in is protein in nature and the cantu is mild protein. doesn’t that result in protein overload? thanks.

  10. Kellie
    February 1, 2017 / 6:01 am

    How much scurl do you mix with the cantu?

    I currently use scurl by itself and love it although it does build up after a while when using daily. I don’t like cantu at all. But I am interested in mixing them like you have.

    • Lade
      Author
      February 8, 2017 / 2:25 pm

      Hello Kellie

      I tend to mix about 50:50 or there about.
      If it works for you, great. if it doesn’t then don’t force it and do what ever is best for your hair.
      Let me know how it goes.

      x
      Lade